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Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Fontan Day 6: June 5, 9:30 pm (Chyllous)

Caden continues to get a little stronger each day.  He is talking a bit more and itching his hands and feet asking for cream (for his eczema) now I know our boy is starting to return!!  He went on a couple of great walks which also included one of our favorite nurses Suzie. We even took the wagon outside to enjoy the beautiful sunshine.  Caden still needs frequent breaks where he leans on daddy and supports himself to regain his strength.  I watch him and it really is amazing how strong he is and far he has come in just a few days.  I love how determined he is at playing hide and seek with farm animals up and down the halls with nurse Suzie.  Turning this into a fun little way to encourage him to walk.  Caden's appetite hasn't really returned yet, just consuming a vanilla boost (since we can no longer give pediasure because it has too much fat), and a small serving of spagettios which he didn't keep down.  The dietician met with us today to go over Caden's new diet for 6 weeks.  All I can say is feeding a toddler 3 grams or less of fat really stinks.   Physical Therapy also came to work with Caden to again help get him out of bed and encourage movement which at times Caden is resistant against saying he wants to just lay in bed.  So, all in all we have had a good day.  I realize David is exhausted as he is the one staying in the hospital with Caden at his bedside.  Since last night consisted of multiple people entering the room trying to find a line, lots of crying, consoling etc it makes for even longer days for him.  Anyone who has experienecd hospital life realizes there isn't such a thing as sleep in the hospital no matter what they provide for comfort for family members.  I am so blessed to have a wonderful husband who looks after our boy at night while I can sleep so I can try to be there for him during the day. I love him so much - Thanks David.  Each day emotionally is so draining too.   We witness some really hard things each day that really make us stop and think about our life, our boy, and our blessings.  We have families on our floor waiting for hearts, families who have lost their child, and families going down the same path we are.  I'm fortunate to have David to lean on. He provides that hug, the right words, or the comic relief, to get me to a better place mentally.   I am also very thankful we saw a few smiles today (thanks to all our prayers they are working).  It really is amazing how a smile can make your day.  The only prayer request is to pray for now for Caden is good news for Caden's drainage tubes at rounds tomorrow morning.  This afternoon Caden started to show a milky, white, creamy color out of his tubes indicating chyllous.  I just ask for prayers for good news to continue with Caden's progress so far, and the chyllous is under control so we are able to take the tubes out.  The doctor plans on checking Caden around 2am for  his chyllous status to see what the next course of action will be.

Again, thanks to all of you for your love and support.
Love Melissa and David

  Going for a litte walk to get stronger…..

  Fresh air and sunshine

  Wonderful Nurse Suzie and our boy!

8 comments:

  1. We are so thankful for smiles :) today. We pray that tomorrow is more smiles. We will specifically pray for the 2am check and continued positive progress. Also we continue to pray for rest and strength for mom and dad. Pray tomorrow is full of more blessings.

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  2. We don't know where you get the extra energy dedicated to posting pictures and updates but we are sure enjoying all of them. We're praying your precious boy will have more walking and talking tomorrow. As for tonight...let it be peaceful for all. Yea Caden!
    Mike and Melanie

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  3. Yeah Caden, he looks wonderful. Yes I agree with Melanie about all the posts and pic's you post. It is so wonderful to see and hear all the progress he is making. So with that we are thinking and contuined prayers for you all to have a restful night and that Caden gets those tubes out tomorrow.

    Love,
    Dawn

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  4. I love the pictures!! And you are right, you have a wonderful husband- but you aren't so terrible yourself Melissa. You guys are a great team... and you have to be to endure a sick child. I am not too happy about reading about the chyllous but if I remember correctly, seeing a little is ok, it's the amount of it that matters. So I will pray specifically for that peaky tubes to come out today. I still can't believe he is up and walking with those things. ouch. And I guess I never thought about their diet changing. It' s been so focused on weight gain that I guess it will change. huh. I hope Caden takes to it OK. Thanks so much for the updates. You guys are in my constant thoughts... I have Caden on a bunch of prayer lists so you are all being carried now, so rest easy (ha!) I bet you are missing Griffin SO much... you'll all be together soon... soon...
    love you guys,
    Teri

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  5. It is truly amazing to see his progress. He is one brave boy! I check the blog for updates many times a day and cannot thank you enough for caring enough to share with us. Prayers continue.

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  6. I am so happy for all of you that Caden is making such wonderful progress. I am truly amazed by the power of LOVE and prayer to unite, strengthen and heal. You are so blessed to have eachother - may your LOVE for one another carry you through this challenging time together. I too am impressed that you have the time and energy to share your experience but I know in some way that it is probably cathartic and aids your spirits as you all live through this experience. Know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  7. Glad to see Caden got to go outside in the sunshine!! That should boost his little spirit:). We'll definately pray for NO Chyllous- we know what a pain that is! The no fat diet doesn't sound that fun either. You should ask them if you could make him a smoothie- 1 banana, 1 c frozen fruit, 6 oz. nonfat yogurt, 8oz. fruit juice, blend it all up- we feed these to Lindsey all the time and she LOVES them- no fat and they taste so good...especially to a kid. Praying for a great day for you guys!!

    Love from the Pusick Family!!

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  8. Wagon rides and hide and seek....the beginning of returning to normal! Hoping that the rounds this morning go well. Thinking of you everyday!

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